recently have been learning so much about communication, namely how to express and communicate my thoughts and feelings. its been a difficult task because this is definitely something that im not used to and God has been challenging me again and again, putting me in situations where i have to step out of my comfort zone. i must say though, it has been a difficult yet blessed experiences for me, especially when i know that this is something that God planned for both jeff and i to work on together. He has continuously been reminded me of His grace through jeff. 

fellowship is a two-way commitment, it requires communication. you can sit with a million of people at the same time and still be alone. until you decide to share yourself with others, you will find yourself still alone at the end of the day.

one of the fundamentals of fellowship is communication, and in order to have true fellowship, it has to be a two-way effort coming from both side. with respect to my relationship with jeff, our relationship is essentially a fellowship of us two with God as our leader, and because we cannot completely comprehend each other's thoughts and feelings, it is necessary to communicate in order to have a true fellowship. with respect to my brothers and sisters in Christ, the relationships requires communication among us with God as the center of fellowship. how can we have true biblical fellowship, bearing burdens for each other, love each other, pour out to each other, when there is no communication? with respect to God, my personal relationship with Him has to have communication, namely through prayer, in order to grow healthily, and prayer here is not merely supplication, but also include adoration, confession, thanksgiving, and intercession. it is a way to communicate our needs, our thoughts, our true self to God. it is a mean for God to shape our heart and grow our faith. 

no wonder God create relationships with the requirement of communications, because thats exactly what He desires from us.